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BIBLE QUESTIONS ANSWERED FOR CHILDREN & YOUNG ADULTS
GOD'S GREAT GIFT TO MANKIND
The Bible does not lay out a step-by-step order
for family relationship priorities. However, we can still look to the Scriptures and find general principles for prioritizing
our family relationships. God obviously comes first: Deuteronomy 6:5, “Love the LORD your God with all your
heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.” All of one’s heart, soul, and strength is to
be committed to loving God, making Him the first priority.
If you are married, your spouse comes next. A married man
is to love his wife as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25). Christ’s first priority—after obeying and glorifying
the Father—was the church. Here is an example a husband should follow: God first, then his wife. In the same way, wives
are to submit to their husbands “as to the Lord” (Ephesians 5:22). The principle is that a woman’s husband is second only
to God in her priorities.
If husbands and wives are second only to God in our priorities, and since a husband and wife
are one flesh (Ephesians 5:31), it stands to reason that the result of the marriage relationship—children—should
be the next priority. Parents are to raise godly children who will be the next generation of those who
love the Lord with all their hearts (Proverbs 22:6; Ephesians 6:4), showing once again that God comes first. All other family relationships
should reflect that.
Deuteronomy 5:16 tells us to honor our parents so that we may live long and so
things will go well with us. No age limit is specified, which leads us to believe that as long as our parents are alive, we
should honor them. Of course, once a child reaches adulthood, he is no longer obligated to obey them (“Children, obey
your parents...”), but there is no age limit to honoring them. We can conclude from this that parents are next in the
list of priorities after God, our spouses, and our children. After parents comes the rest of one's family (1 Timothy 5:8).
Following one’s extended family in the list of
priorities are fellow believers. Romans 14 tells us not judge or look down upon our brothers (v. 10) or do anything to cause
a fellow Christian to “stumble” or fall spiritually. Much of the book of 1 Corinthians is Paul’s instructions
on how the church should live together in harmony, loving one another. Other exhortations referring to our brothers and sisters
in Christ are “serve one another in love” (Galatians 5:13); “be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each
other, just as in Christ God forgave you” (Ephesians 4:32); “encourage one another and build each
other up” (1 Thessalonians 5:11); and “consider how we may spur one
another on toward love and good deeds" (Hebrews 10:24). Finally comes the rest of the world (Matthew 28:19), to whom we should bring the gospel, making disciples of Christ.
conclusion, the scriptural order of priorities is God, spouse, children, parents, extended family, brothers and sisters in
Christ, and then the rest of the world. While sometimes decisions must be made to focus on one person over another, the goal
is to not be neglecting any of our relationships. The biblical balance is allowing God to empower us to meet all of our relationship
priorities, inside and outside our families.
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